I've just read Miriam Stoppard's book 'Teach your Child', which includes the following as Status Symbols Common to Most Children:
- Material Possessions: toys and play equipment, sports equipment, clothes, collections of any kind, some books, some comics.
- Family Possessions: A nice house with a playroom, a large lawn, a nice car or cars.
- Popularity with Peers: a large number of playmates and friends.
- Athletic success: success in games and sports at any age.
- Academic success being a good reader, and among older children, good academic grades.
- Parental occupation: your occupation, especially if it carries prestige or is professional, can carry status for your child.
- Leadership roles: a leadership role played by either the child or by the parents in business or community affairs is a status symbol for the whole family.
- Autonomy: having freedom to do what they want and when they wants. Children who are brought up by overly liberal parents more often have this status symbol.
- Spending money: having lots of money always impresses peers, regardless of source.
- Earning money: a child who earns money for odd jobs gives the impression of being older than their peers and has the prestige status of being an earner.
- Travel: the more children travel and the further away from home, especially by flying, the greater the status they seem to have with their peers.
I tend to agree with everything on this list. I'm not sure if it makes for comfortable reading though! Is there anything that you'd disagree with, or add to the list? Does it all vary depending on the age of the child? My DC are too young to appreciate a nice car, for example.