I went out today to ask the 10 children (3 of whom live in nearby houses) to stop playing football in the communal carpark outside my house which is shared between 5 houses. This isn't the first time they've played there and although cars have never been dented the ball ( a light leather one I think, not plastic) has often bounced off the cars. Today, After watching for a while while I was gardening and seeing my car being hit at least 3 times, I went over and asked them to play elsewhere. There is a large football park with goalposts just around the corner. They then moved away but a dad who lives a few doors down (and doesn't use that carpark was passing and I mentioned to him what I'd said because I thought his child was there. Turns out his child wasn't but he made a point of saying I was being very harsh asking them to move, it was a light ball in his opinion and the children were too small to do any damage ( they were around 8 years old) I disagreed and said that the ball could scratch cars and anway it was private property because the spaces were in our house deeds. To which he replied whatever but he stii thinks it's harsh. I later saw him talking to the parents of one of the other children and pointing to my house. I'm now worried that everyone around will think I'm an ogre and I didn't really want to cause hassle! Was IBU?
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AIBU to ask these children to stop playing football?
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ActualAl · 28/09/2011 19:23
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