DD1 is 14 and is a mature 14 yo.
All the DCs have always been able to read anything in the house.
She was going though my book shelf and picked up Lady Chatterlery's Lover the other day, after flicking through it and reading blurb etc. She asked could she read it. Of course she can.
DH found book in living room and asked me if I was re-reading it. I said it was DD1.
DH thinks it is not a appropriate book for her to read at all, and I should have said she couldn't read it.
I think it isn't like it is the Cement Garden or anything, and it isn't that bad at all in my eyes. And I would just tell her not to leave it in living room where younger DCs could pick it up and flick though and read (as they do with mine and DHs books if we leave them around)
He thinks we should say that actually she can't read it until she is older.
In my eyes the language isn't aything worse than she will hear at school, the sex isn't that explicit, And she knows herself - if she doesn't get on with it for whatever reason she will put it down and get back to it at a later date. Also we are close and she is the sort to tell me about what she is reading,what she thinks ec.
DH thinks it is highly unsuitable for her.
So AIBU to let her read it?
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DD1 and Lady Chatterlery's Lover
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ticktocktiptap · 28/09/2011 13:05
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