My dd applied for a job that advertised "pay negotiable". During the interview she asked about the pay and was told £6. After the interview, she phoned me with her good news. But I explained to her that at that rate she was going to be worse off. Basically £6 per hr=£198.42 weekly net. The cheapest after school care is £8.50 for 2.5hr= £42.50 a week. Her rent + council tax = £150 weekly. Her transport is £15 a week.
She currently have a PA due to her disabililty, she will have to pay for the PA as her earnings will be more than £5000 (even though she won't have any savings). She agreed and turned down the job as they wouldn't increase the pay rate. Its been several days but I still keep on bursting in tears because I feel my dd is doomed to poverty. She has a BSc and yet can't get a decent job because they want "people with experience ". But how is she going to be "experienced" if no one is giving her a chance.
There's no family member to help as we are all scattered all over the world. All the family members have asked her to relocate to a country where there's some family members so we can help her but she refused because of her child's education (yr2) and she doesn't want to loose her home (x council house now HA). The schoold agreed to hold gdd place for a year and if she didn't return they would then give away. During that year gdd would have to submit her work online to the teacher.
I can't imagine how she feels because as her mother, her suffering is tearing my heart.
AIBU to be crying for my child's pain. And how do I help her?
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doomedtopoverty · 28/09/2011 12:29
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