We live in a 2bed London flat and i have a two week old baby son. It's my first I'm breastfeeding and haven'thad longer than 2 hrs consectutive sleep since he was born - I'm knackered but just about holding it together. My dh younger brother (26yrs) phoned up tonight to say he was going to come and stay from sat to tues to see the baby - he wants to stay at ours. My dad and his wife are already coming this weekend but are staying at my sisters in Surrey. I told dh that I don't think I can cope with someone staying for 3 nights especially not as my dh starts back at work on the Monday and I'm already apprehensive about it. My DH has given me a massive guilt trip and now isn't speaking to me - I just do 't think he understands how tired I am ( he doesn't have to get up in the night as I'm breastfeeding and I've moved into another room). Am I being unreasonable? It's not that I don't want my bil to come but I just can't deal with guest that stay so long at the moment as putting on a front of coping is ok for and afternoon but would be impossible for 3 full days!!
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To not allow brother in law to come and stay for 3 nights as we have a 2week old baby
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benne81 · 28/09/2011 03:22
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