i know a family who is living in really dirty conditions, and its just because the mum is lazy. its really really filthy.
the kids GP and HV think that they all live at the grandma's because she wont let people in to the filthy house.
if i phone SS and tell them my concerns she is going to know its only gonna be one of a handful of people who would/could have called them.
she is going to accuse her mother of doing it without a doubt and because she is stubborn she'll prob stop talking to them. her mum will know its going to be me, my mum, or the womans auntie or cousin its not going to be anyone else.
i really dont want to cause a rift in the family because she WILL stop the DCs seeing their grandma etc.
it really is dirty, outside and in, if the eldest DC is naughty its sent to bed with no tea (cant prove this) she wont let anyone in, she says she goes out all day so she doesnt have to face it.
she really needs to have a fright by SS turning up or do i just try and rally a team together armed with black bags and gloves and bleach?
there is loads more details i can give. i dont know what or how SS would handle the info i give them (i mean what would they say to her)
sorry its typed out really quick as i gotta pick my DS up from school soon havent proof read
ANY ADVICE WOULD BE AMAZING THANKYOU!!!! :) :)
AIBU?
SS being called will tear the family apart quite possibly?
aCwtchIsMoreThanAHug · 27/09/2011 14:06
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