Dh not well. Man flu We have all had it over the past few weeks-I had it last week. He took friday off and spent the day lying on the couch,hogging the remote and moaning at the dcs playing.
Saturdays the kids have activities. I take 2 of them and he takes the eldest. Yesterday he makes a big deal out of wheezing/sighing and basically being a martyr. I pointed out that he did not have to take ds-could miss his activity-I am unable to take him as dont drive. He chose to take him.
Today 2 of them have another activity-which he usually takes them too as I go with the youngest to his parents-every sunday and he meets us there. This is his choice btw. He asks me if I mind taking them.
Now finally for the aibu?-dont mind taking the kids-have taken them in the past when dh wanted to watch football,have a day off etc. However it is a 40 minute walk-we all got absolutely drenched on the way home.
He never offers to take the kids when I am ill-such as last weekend when I just had to get on with it. Is quite happy for us all to get soaked so long as he is ok. Had no money for public transport before anyone pipes up with that.
Has never once offered me a lift-anywhere. Now I am far from precious-the dcs and I are well used to walking for up to a couple of hours to get to where we want to go or using public transport. However when I have been on nights out with friends their dh are more than happy to drop them off/pick them up-is this normal? sorry off topic but am pissed off with it all.
I am bu arent I?
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AIBU?
To think my dh is a selfish twat?
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pink4ever · 25/09/2011 16:07
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