This has been relayed to me by DH on the phone as I'm away.
This happen on Friday
We have 3 DCs (8, 6 and 4).
In school we have just been given a load of letters and permission slips about Christmas, school tips and a new detail form etc.
DH is severly severly dyslexic (to such an exent that when people ask he just says he can not read and write) the School know this - we have made it clear from when children first started school and make sure individual teacher definatly know.
When he picked middle DC up on friday, teacher came up and said that permission slips for this DC and the others haven't been given in, and that they must be given in etc. Esp as one is a new form about all children (with contact details, any medical needs etc)
I have been away now for a few weeks abroad with work and so missed these forms given out.
DH said to teacher did she understand situation and she said she did but reguardless of that they have to be filled out and the school need them in by tuesday at lastest. DH obvously got very upset about all this.
Now he can 'sign' a form to give permission, but given that he cant read what he is signing or include any of the details - he doesn't like doing it.
Now he is getting a close friend to tell him what the forms are and to write in extra information for him on the permission slips for trips. And we have decided not to give new details form in until i get back (in 2 weeks) - mainly as eldest DC form will be complicated.
Now that is fine, we are use to it and have ways of dealing with it -so that isn't really the point.
AWBU to expect the school to after 4 years of our DCs being in school - to know that DH cannt do the paper work and things like that will always be don by me?
and AWBU to think that when we explain it for 100th time, they should accept it and assist us? (eg get it though their thick heads that if they given eldest a writting homework to be done with help from parents while I am away that it will not be done with a parent or such forms like that will be late)
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moonfaceandmrsslap · 25/09/2011 00:59
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