DH suggested we should go out to eat tonight. As we went out the door DS asked where we were going and dh made a suggestion but it wasn't set in stone. DS said he wanted to go to a different restaurant (which we've been to before) and we said no, we've been there already, we're new to the area, nice to go somewhere else for a change.
Ds then storms off down the road, no looking back, sulky posture etc. At the road we stop and he is virtually in tears so dh asks what's wrong (we knew what the answer would be.) Ds then bursts into teas and says that he didn't want to go elsewhere, he wanted to go to x restaurant. We said no and he persisted. So I turned around and we went home. He cried all the way down the road (he is eight fgs not a toddler). There was no reasoning with him - he was having none of it.
So I have sent him to bed with the explanation that if he'd had an actual discussion rather than having a strop because he didn't get his own way, then we would have been having dinner somewhere now.
I don't use food as a punishment - by his attitude he has IMO made the choice for himself to go without dinner.
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wannaBe · 23/09/2011 19:07
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