I am a regular but I have namechanged for this in case it outs me in RL
Me and DH have been invited to a wedding tomorrow but without the DC. This is fine with me, we only had family children at our wedding and we will be able to relax a bit more.
I have a DS from a previous relationship and DH also has a DS from a previous relationship. We have DD together. We have known about this wedding for quite a while and I contacted my XP regarding having DS which was fine. I have a very good relationship with my XP however DH doesn?t with his. My BF was supposed to be looking after DD but she can?t now as she is working however my DM has said that she is happy to. This weekend is DH?s weekend with his DS (he has him every other weekend and Wednesday overnight) and I have been telling him for some time to ask his XP whether she will swap weekends. He didn?t do this until Thursday morning!! And she said that she would have her DS this weekend however wouldn?t swap weekends. Two weeks ago when it was DH?s weekend my MIL had him as we were moving house so he hasn?t really spent much time with him for a few weeks.
The upshot of this is that DH plans to go to the wedding and I will stay at home and look after DSS and DD (they are his friends more than mine). AIBU to be really pissed off about this. I have managed to sort childcare out for both DS and DD and he left it very last minute to sort out childcare for his DS.
I am already feeling quite delicate today as last night my BF told me that my XP who I was with for some time is taking her out for dinner and drinks next week.
Coupled with the fact that a former partner of DH will be at the wedding tomorrow and has been posting on facebook that she has had her hair done, spray tan, nails, new dress etc for the occasion.
So AIBU?
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carryonregardless · 23/09/2011 11:09
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