Probably going to come across as really petty and childish but:
I'm 30. My sister is 18. Both of us left school with shit GCSE results (I got 2, she got none) and so neither of us were destined to be academic superstars. When my sister left school she was shoved onto a level 2 art and design course because basically with her poor attendance and grades at school they didn't think she'd manage much else. At the same time, I finally got my thoughts together and started an Access to University course (level 3, very demanding course). Well for the entire year I heard nothing but my sister's art course, what she's been doing this week, what she's doing next week etc etc and my course was very rarely mentioned (and if it was, it was mentioned in a bored 'suppose I better ask' voice). My sister scraped through her course with an attendance rate of 69%. I passed at merit/distinction level with 100% attendance. My success was barely mentioned and instead all attention was focussed on my sister and how great it was that she'd been accepted onto a level 3 course. My mum has known for a while now that I've secured a place at university however again it rarely gets mentioned as every conversation is dominated by what my sister is upto. My mum has occasionally asked "when you back at college?" to me but that's as far as it goes. In fact half the time she seems more concerned that I might ask for help with childcare than anything else.
So my sister started on her level 3 course last monday. Again it's all my mum keeps banging on about (and already she's managed to have a day off with "stomach ache" . I have called numerous times to ask how she's getting on etc and have really shown an interest.
I started my 3 year degree course on Wednesday. So the night before a few texts off friends wishing me good luck - nothing off my mum. The day I actually started again I heard nothing at all from my mum all day. Today I finally gave up and called her. This was the convo:
mum - "hi, when do you start college?"
me - "Its Uni. And I started yesterday."
mum - "Frank, turn those fishfingers down while I'm on the phone .... erm ... when do you start?"
me - "sigh I started yesterday"
mum - "they're already in the oven! put some chips with them if you want! so erm - when did you start? today?"
me - YESTERDAY
mum - "oh alright! no need to snap! are you tired or something??"
me - "well I said it 3 times!"
mum - "Don't let them burn Frank - oh - umm - you enjoy it then?"
me - "yes, upto now we've been .... "
mum - "Frank, ask Lou if she wants chips with her fish fingers - sorry go on, I'm listening ... "
So I won't bore you with the rest of the conversation because you get the gist Be on honest, aibu? I get so sick of this.
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To think my mum could show a bit of interest in ME for a change?
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MuthaInsuperior · 22/09/2011 19:18
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