he's dying as I type, from dementia. Although nearly 94, it will not be a 'happy' elderly person's funeral as poor FIL has suffered tremendously in the last week. SIL and MIL have been by his bedside constantly and they are absolutely traumatised by having to watch FIL die so slowly. He is very comfortable, but doped to the eyeballs with sedatives and morphine.
We have to fly to see them and DH has been back and forward over the week. He's there now and will stay until FIL dies, hopefully in the next 48 hours.
There will be a wake, which DH doesn't think is appropriate for the DSs, more because it goes on for a few days and we'll be expected to stay in the house to receive visitors.
I don't object to the DSs going to a funeral, but MIL says it will be over an hour and she wants us there.
I'm a bit worried about the hysteria; DH says SIL is in orbit at the moment and we'll be under the same roof.
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Highlander · 22/09/2011 14:49
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