Am I overreacting? Please give me advice...
Ok this is my first thread so will try to keep in short and to the point ;)
I have a DD of 3 and DD of 5.
My friend of 2 years has DS of 5 years and DD of 2 years and expecting another has started to be well immature and I feel- very spiteful at times.
Before the weekend she was at my house while big kids at school, my daughter had wrapped herself up in our sofa blanket in the dining room and was happily playing with her teddies. I heard her scream and when i went into the room she was crying, i scooped her up and Friend said she just pulled her along the floor and very abruptly said to her in a very childish voice ?Im not going to play with you any more? walked off and plonked herself down on the sofa. I was livid i made sure DD was ok and decided to keep an eye on her.
A few hours later after still slobbing on my sofa we were in the kitchen and my DD was being typical 3 year old had started acting up and she said to her ?Oh XXXXXX you are evil? i quickly said if anyone was going to say this then it should be me . She said sorry i didn?t mean it like that.
We are together a lot and our DD?s are not the same age and they have their usual 10 mins loving each other and well they do find it hard to share. This is what you would expect and I think it is Very normal behaviour . But when we are in our house its ?Oh XXXXXX my DD is little you should share? then when her daughter doesn?t share its ?Oh XXXXX my DD is little you should share? I always feel like she?s singling my DD out. She does give her the evil stare sometimes and it just makes me feel uncomfortable.
When we go to the park my DD seems to get to the swings first and when there is no other free after about 5 mins she?s behind me telling my DD ?Oh is XXXXX turn?. Rather than just wait for a free swing.
She comments all the time on my DD?s behaviour and asked me if i think i should see someone about her OCD. WTF. My daughter likes to line DVDS up in a line and tidy up and stuff but nothing to extreme (loves getting dirty and not obsessive about hand washing)
I adore her daughter and treat her the same as my own, she is a typical 2 year old little monkey teases my daughter yes! and is a very happy kid a bit like my own i think and well i embrace that but never feel that I have to make an issue out of every little act. My DD is no longer happy in their company and doesn?t want to meet with them when i tell her what we are doing that day.
This is not all of it but I haven?t got all night!
Our 5 year olds go to the same school so obviously worried about what will happen if it all comes to blows. I havnt met with her this week although we have met at school pickups but i find her to be cold.
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Am I overreacting?
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ilovezumba · 21/09/2011 21:04
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HamstersDontSwim ·
21/09/2011 21:11
Stay away!
Your 'friend' is horrid to your DD and it just shouldnt be like that 
You dont have to have a row, just be busy and let it cool off.
altinkum ·
21/09/2011 21:27
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troisgarcons ·
21/09/2011 21:37
she said to her ?Oh XXXXXX you are evil? i quickly said if anyone was going to say this then it should be me
Wow! "evil" !!!!!! fantastic, I like it 
Not sure anyone has trhe prerogative on it though. So you calling evils is better than her calling evils?
Cant wait for the justification on this!
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