I work part time, 20 hours per week, and am a sole parent. My kids (DS13, DD10) are both hard working at school and are extremely busy out of school. DD dances several days per week and is very talented. DS has ASD and, after years of trying to motivate him, now does 3 nights per week of activities which I am very happy about as these help with his self esteem.
The problem is that because I am so pleased with their attitude to work outside of the home, I have been very guilty over the years of letting them get away with doing very few chores at home.
I, myself, am very unmotivated when it comes to housework and make excuses to not do it. BUT, I know the time has come to change this because the house is a constant mess and I find it stressful.
Part of me things I should think myself lucky that my kids are cheerful,hardworking people in some respects,and therefore should not expect more from them around the house. They are always worn out at the end of the day after school, activities and homework- I sometimes feel sorry for them and so don't demand any more from them. On the other hand, part of me feels that I am not doing them any favours by not making them do chores.
Should I do just do it all myself as I only work 20 hours.Or should they be helping too?
Thanks in advance for any input.
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katmat · 21/09/2011 03:11
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