I'm a regular lurker and would really appreciate some perspective.
Basically, I recently started dating a guy I new many years ago and we got back in touch through facebook.
On one of the first dates, he dropped in to the conversation thay he didn't do the whole 'one night stand' malarkey and had only slept with 7 women. I have been single for almost 3 years so have done the one night stand thing and was quite upfront about it. (figured no point in lying and am I now at a place where I'm looking for more than that) To be honest though, I was quite impressed that he was a 'nice' guy IYSWIM.
Anyway, many dates on and he drops in to a rather drunken conversation that he has slept with loads more people than he first claimed. I feel really annoyed that he lied, like he wanted me to believe he was someone different than who he really is.
I have real trust issues anyway (ExH was a compulsive liar so I may be OTT wary) It just feels like we started on the wrong foot and I feel weird about it all now.
Am I being weird? Be harsh if need be.... Maybe I'm just not cut out for this relationship stuff.
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BeBrutal · 18/09/2011 20:49
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