DH and DD1 (age 3) are going on holiday next week with my inlaws and his brother and kids. I was supposed to go too but due to work stuff I can't, so me and the baby are staying at home.
I thought I was ok with it but as the time approaches I am getting really stressed about DD being so far away from me. It will be her 1st proper foreign holiday, 1st time on a plane, they are staying in a villa with a pool. I keep getting myself worried about things like safety in the pool, what if she wanders off on the beach etc. DH is a great dad, but his style of parenting is a lot more... relaxed, shall we say.
I just want us to set some ground rules, eg NO going in the pool without an adult (BIL's kids are older so I'm worried he might just let all the kids play in the pool together and not keep a close eye on her), making sure doors in the villa etc are shut or locked so she can't wander off to the pool alone, not letting her go off with her cousins on the beach without an adult, etc.
Every time I try to have a conversation about this DH either makes a joke of it or gets offended that I think he won't look after her.
AIBU to just want to agree on some groundrules together, just for my own peace of mind? Or am I just being paranoid?
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to just want to set some ground rules?
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cheeseandmarmitesandwich · 18/09/2011 08:20
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