It's my Grandparents wedding anniversary in a few weeks for which my parents are organising a family get togther/buffet/party thing for them with family and close friends.
I have a younger brother (21) who has just 'come out'. My parents are 'aparantly' okay with it and I don't give two hoots.
However last night I was talking to my mum telling her what time we would be arriving at said party (DBro is coming with us as he is at Uni in the same city as DH and I live)
And She informed me that DBro wasn't coming as my parents after taking to grandparents and 'knowing the other guests' have decided that it would be best if DBro didn't come as guest may not agree with his 'choice'. I asked specifically about what Grandparents said (this doesn't sound like them) and she just muffled and spluttered something.
So I'm presumming this is coming from my parents and no one else.
My DBro is very upset about it all and I know feel stuck between a rock and a hard place.
I want to go and celebrate with my grandparents and see other family and friends, I want our young DCs to see family (grandparents haven't met youngest - 8mnth, we haven't had a chance to go down). But equally I don't want to be around people who wont accept my DBro (who I am very very close too) and don't even want him there.
I'm really stuck.
AIBU if I do go or AIBU if I dont
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Iliketothinkimnumber6 · 17/09/2011 13:09
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