My feed
Premium

Please
or
to access all these features

AIBU?

To be shocked at grandmother leaving a 13 month old in a pub on her own

138 replies

TheAlphaParent · 14/09/2011 19:25

My mum and I took my 13 month old daughter to Wetherspoons for a meal (6pm). The bar is in a different room to the seating area. The pub was crowded. I went to the bar to order the food whilst mum sat with my daughter. Whilst I was at the bar mum came up to me and told me that she had found a bigger table. She had left my daughter on her own in a crowded pub to come and tell me that. I nearly had a heart attack and sent her back immediately. Needless to say I gave mum a good bollocking. Her response? "Sorry I'm not perfect".

AIBU to be shocked? How could a fellow mother be so negligent?

OP posts:
Report
spiderpig8 · 14/09/2011 19:27

She must have only left her for a few seconds YAB bit U

Report
troisgarcons · 14/09/2011 19:27

YABU and a bit hysterical TBH.

Report
HairyGrotter · 14/09/2011 19:28

Was your daughter and mother in the same room as you whilst ordering drinks? YABU taking anyone to a Whetherspoons

Report
allhailtheaubergine · 14/09/2011 19:28

What do you mean by "gave mum a good bollocking"?

Report
BeerTricksPotter · 14/09/2011 19:28

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

RedOnion · 14/09/2011 19:29

YABU. What do you think would have happened in the approx 120 seconds??

(and surely most people in a Wetherspoons are too pissed to stand up let alone pinch a baby?)

Report
TheAlphaParent · 14/09/2011 19:30

Was your daughter and mother in the same room as you whilst ordering drinks

  • no. The bar is up some strairs in a completely different room.


What do you mean by "gave mum a good bollocking"?

  • I told her that she must never leave the baby alone in public ever.


May I also add that daughter is PFB Blush
OP posts:
Report
Kayano · 14/09/2011 19:30

Ffs your thread title suggests that your
Mum took the baby to the pub and LEFT THE Pub!!!

She didn't... YAB a bit U to have bollocked her imo

Report
worraliberty · 14/09/2011 19:30

YANBU

Whetherspoons pubs are notorious for child snatchers who huddle in groups under the tables, waiting for a mother to nip to the bar for a few seconds....

Report
MrsJamin · 14/09/2011 19:31

YABU

Report
AmazingBouncingFerret · 14/09/2011 19:31

The last thing anyone in wetherspoons would want to do would be pinch a baby, it would get in the way of their drinking time.

Report
iskra · 14/09/2011 19:31

Seriously?

Report
TheAlphaParent · 14/09/2011 19:31

Totally worraliberty Wink

OP posts:
Report
troisgarcons · 14/09/2011 19:32

Ah - you can always tell a first time mother !

by the time you've had 10 kids you'll be a little more relaxed.

Report
mumeeee · 14/09/2011 19:32

YABU. Yea perhaps your Mum shouldn't have left your DD. But it would only have been for a few seconds and she just made a mistake. As she said she's not perfect. There was no reason to have a go at her.

Report
TheOriginalFAB · 14/09/2011 19:32

YABU to take a "baby out for a meal" at that time.

You sound very disrespectful to your mother. Clearly she has brought up a child and thought it was okay to leave the baby for a couple of minutes if that. She is hardly going to risk the safety of her grandchild. Maybe she could have done a better job with teaching her child manners though.

Report
TheAlphaParent · 14/09/2011 19:33

Pinching isn't the only negative risk. My daughter was distressed at being left alone in a crowded place. She was in tears when I got back.

OP posts:
Report
SinicalSal · 14/09/2011 19:33

I'd be more worried if she left a 13 YEAR old in wetherspoons on their own tbh,

Report
RedOnion · 14/09/2011 19:34

Anyone wanna go wetherspoons? MN group discount? Grin

Report
SinicalSal · 14/09/2011 19:34

Though I agree with you, I wouldn't have left her out of my eyeline, certainly not on a different floor.

Report
BeerTricksPotter · 14/09/2011 19:34

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

spiderpig8 · 14/09/2011 19:35

I bet you'll be on here in a few years complaining your mother never offers to baby sit!

Report

Don’t want to miss threads like this?

Weekly

Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!

Log in to update your newsletter preferences.

You've subscribed!

HairyGrotter · 14/09/2011 19:35

I'll have double vodka and Redbull, along with some Garlic Breaded Mushrooms with a side of Drunk old man who smells of piss chatting me up. Ta xx

Report
Catsmamma · 14/09/2011 19:35

and how was the cosy catch up chit chat over the meal???


YABU! for soooooooooooooooo many reasons.

Report
worraliberty · 14/09/2011 19:35

How do you know being left for a few seconds was what made her cry?

Could simply have been her surroundings or the fact she missed you anyway

Report
Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.