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so i started that thread a week or so ago - now something else has happened and id appreciate your pov as ive honestly lost all perspective on dps drinking.
so last night he went out and said he intended to be home by 12. fair enough i wasnt really bothered what time hed be back as i knew id be in bed regardless. so he cam home in the very small hours, i was asleep in spare room with ds, 18 months. i went in to get him to go to work (we drive in together, with ds) and hes asleep on the floor (i had heard a thud earlier on, presuming now that was him falling out of bed) hardly able to string two word together. so i went and got me and ds changed and eventually went back and told him hed have to move his car off the drive, so i could take my car to work. after much messing he eventually found keys. he was still atrociously drunk, his speech was unrecognisable and even his face looked different iyswim. he had to move his car so i could get out as i cant drive his car. so he moves out, i pull out and wait for him to pull back in the drive so ican drive past and he reverses right in to me.
last year he was out with a friend and they both got horribly drunk and stayed out all night (he came home at 9am) i later found out drugs had been involved that night and the friend he was out with was found unconscious on the side of the road and taken to hospital.
aibu in thinking a 31yr old father shouldnt really be carrying on like this. it disgusts me to think of ds seeing him like that.
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To call my dp up on drinking two bottles of wine when I'm on antidepressants - update
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alwaysblue · 14/09/2011 14:47
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