during arguments
have name changed for this one.
please do not tell me to go and post in relationships as everyone there will just say "leave him" which I do not want to do. I just want to know what is normal for couples (am assuming that there is a big spectrum so want to know what is on it IYSWIM).
When we argue (often - several times a week) dh will often shout fck off, fck off" many times and/or call me an f*cking bitch. He also sometimes invades my personal space whilst making very aggresive facial expressions but he has never actually hit me.
Is this on the "normal" spectrum? He does keep promising to stop but appears (after 15 years) still unable to. AIBU asking him to stop swearing? (Have bought him various books on anger management but he doesn't lik ewhat he refers to as psycobabble. Also I dont' want to drive him to a heart attack by making him "bottle it all up" too much.
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AIBU?
to not want to be sworn at by dh
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brandnewname · 11/09/2011 15:14
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