Long story cut short - my parents DREADFULLY acrimonious divorce 15 years ago, both remarried now.
Mother still won't stop going on about my father's adultery and how he has ruined her life. Would like to invite both to son's christening, father is going on hols and christening falls when he is away. Mother will not come if he is there so decided not to say anything to him and have son's christening without him. He would probably change holiday dates.
Mother says if I do invite him she will not come as she will not play happy families and it is too painful for her to bear. We are not married as I have never felt that I could have a (peaceful) wedding due to their divorce and I would really like my son to have a "normal" day. Otherwise Mother has been a great grandmother and a great help to us with baby. What would you do? My mother is lovely but very very unreasonable. Help!
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february1970 · 09/09/2011 19:14
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