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to stalk XDP of current crush?

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Boysrstupid Wed 07-Sep-11 18:54:36

Play nice I'm a MN virgin...

Background; Girl meets boy & develops huge crush that is ongoing for several years. They indulge in a little extra curricular occassionally over the yrs whilst remaining good friends but neither expecting anything to develop.

Boy meets XDP and very quickly father's a child, remaining in what can only be described as an unhealthy relationship for 4yrs.

They seperate and boy meets girl again on a regular basis (contact over 4 yrs has been restricted but constant with no extra curricular)
Girls crush becomes increasingly evident, as does boys and normal practice resumes ;0)

AIBU to accidentally on purpose bump into my very good friend outside their school playground and ask her to point out XDP (My children attend a different school) Purely on a weighing up the competition basis?

SansaLannister Wed 07-Sep-11 18:56:33

Yes, YABU. He's not with her, why the need to 'weigh up the competition'? She will always be involved in his life because they have a child together.

SayCoolNowSayWhip Wed 07-Sep-11 18:57:21

Reading that made my head hurt. Just for that you probably ARE BU.

ElectricSoftParade Wed 07-Sep-11 18:57:34


worraliberty Wed 07-Sep-11 18:58:56

Sorry but that sounds so childish..even the way it's written out confused

RealityVonCrapp Wed 07-Sep-11 18:59:15

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

AnyFucker Wed 07-Sep-11 19:04:03

Couldn't you just tell it straight ?

You want to have a nosy at the ex gf of your fuckbuddy ?

Why ? What "competition" ? Is this bloke the human equivalent of the FA Cup trophy ?

Proudnscary Wed 07-Sep-11 19:06:30

Get a:

a) Life
b) Grip
c) Hi tech spy kit

HairyGrotter Wed 07-Sep-11 19:06:50

YABU and a Douche to boot

BeerTricksPotter Wed 07-Sep-11 19:10:12

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

GirlWithALlamaTattoo Wed 07-Sep-11 19:11:56

You know it's silly and childish, but if you can make it look as though you're simply chatting to a friend, who could resist?

GwendolenHarleth Wed 07-Sep-11 19:13:49

The boy sounds awful. He uses you for sex with no commitment for several years. He fathers a child and still sees you while in a relationship with the mother of his child. He then ditches the mother of his child and wants to use you for sex with no commitment again. What a catch! Sounds like the XDP is well shot of him.

slavetofilofax Wed 07-Sep-11 19:15:04

Yabu, and very wierd.

Boysrstupid Wed 07-Sep-11 19:16:48

Barrel of laughs you lot are. Apologies for the story telling - I was bored drying my hair and thought i'd indulge in a little creative writing - Note to self; don't give up your day job.
I am infact going to have a nosey purely coz it's fun and does indeed make a thirtysomething mother feel like she's back at school.
I'll let you know if the Vicky Pollard style rumour is true wink

AnyFucker Wed 07-Sep-11 19:18:34

Can you do the neck-sideways manoevre ?

Boysrstupid Wed 07-Sep-11 19:19:10

Ps... AnyFuker he's more Charity Shield than FA cup but a trophy is a trophy right?! grin

AnyFucker Wed 07-Sep-11 19:22:47

this is the business grin

AnyFucker Wed 07-Sep-11 19:23:31

Ack, he sounds like a booby prize to me

AnyFucker Wed 07-Sep-11 19:24:47

Welcome to MN, btw

You have had your initiation ceremony now

< touches each shoulder with a shiny sword >

Boysrstupid Wed 07-Sep-11 19:32:41

Thanks for the Welcome AnyFucker (suspect you r on your own with that 1 though)

I am currently perfecting my neck sideways manoeuvre as we speak.

AnnaThePenguin Wed 07-Sep-11 19:37:28

Grow the fuck up.


SansaLannister Wed 07-Sep-11 19:50:43

U r a chav.

AnyFucker Wed 07-Sep-11 19:53:51

I think the neck sideways-manoevre has a proper name but I'm fucked if I can remember it.

I perticular mannerism of the bee-atch grin said with a "who does she think she izzzz "

AnyFucker Wed 07-Sep-11 19:54:09

A particular

SansaLannister Wed 07-Sep-11 19:56:15

And this chap sounds like a piece of work himself.

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