Short background. I lost my mum when I was 15 (something which I still feel hard to talk about but that's for a different thread) & my DH also lost his dad when he was 15 (although unlike me, he's happy to talk about him)
Anyway, our DS who's 5 has now got to the stage where he keeps asking questions about his family. He'll ask questions about his grandma (DH's mum) & grandad (my dad) & about us when we were little etc etc & every now & then he'll ask about my mum & DH dad, what their names are & about them. He's never asked where they are (or realised that a lot of his friends have 2 sets of grandparents) & the only thing he knows about death is what they were taught at school at Easter & he thinks like Jesus, if you die, you come back again He's just seen an advert for a doll on tv & said I'd have liked that when I was a little girl, which then made him ask where (my mums name) lived when I was little & when I said 'with me', he said 'you & grandad?'.
It's inevitable that the questions will become more in depth & there's only so long I'll be able to change the subject, so has anyone been in a similar situation & do you have any tips to help answer the inevitable questions that will come. Doesn't help that he's a sensitive little soul & I don't much like talking about things myself.
Any help greatly appreciated
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4ForksSake · 02/09/2011 18:38
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