Good friend of many years standing. School togther and later many adventures and misadventures. Have always turned a blind idea to her slightly stingy/free loading ways as loved her dearly.
Fast forward 22 years. She has returned to home, building a large house, husband a total ejit, fell into financial difficulties regarding house build. She asked me for £10,000, which I freely told her about. (Dim in hind sight). i agreed (even dimmer) but before giving it to her, bank agreed a larger loan. So I was in the clear. A week later, husband sacked, this on the cards for some time, but she hadn't been up front about it.
In effect, she was willing to take my money, with the full knowledge that there was no real way of paying it back. I am so angry with her and feel hate filled towards her. I have been very cool and do not initiate phone calls etc. How can a friend turn you over like this? How could I have let it happen.
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To have cut a friend out of the picture.
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lolaflores · 02/09/2011 11:24
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