fortunately the kids are healthy generally but the youngest has had a few years of hospital appointments and ds is currently having 6 weekly appointments for his roaccutane follow up.
I have a fairly flexible job, within reason and so have shuffled stuff about and gone but Tuesday's have a fixed point that is very difficult to get changed.
DH teaches.
I have done every bl**dy appointment over past 12yrs except for the one in July - I couldn't possibly take time off before we went on holiday so eldest ( just turned 18 a few days before ) went as his adult.
Next appt is 6/9. We have just got the date on return from holiday. No way can I go as it isn't even a week for me to swap stuff about.
DH refuses to even ask if he can go- despite the fact that he has a teacher day, so no kids in- he also refused in July " to near to end if term" ( though the kids were in then).
His reasoning - new job started on 1/9.
Changing appt really difficult and vital as he won't get medication if he isn't seen.
I am so upset- surely other teachers ( especially female ones?) do have time off to take kids to hospital?? WTF can't he just occasionally go- actually his new school is very close to the hospital so he'll be out of school for only 90 mins or so- takes me all morning...
I have called them and ds will go alone- it seems they will see him and he is fully gillick competent- he has always done all the talking etc so will be fine and he's happy to do it so all will be well but I'm still fuming.
(actually it'll be a but of a waste of time- doc will say are they working- ds will say - yes and then he'll say the side effects are just are just about tolerable , and he'll get more tablets , but it has to be done).
What do you think? Surely all parents should be allowed to cover these things??
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Theas18 · 30/08/2011 17:29
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