My sister and her boyfriend live in a 1 bed flat. They have a mutual friend who has recently got divorced and is unemployed, and they said that she could stay with them for a few weeks whilst she got herself sorted out. It is now 3 months down the line and she is still living there. She shows no sign of getting a job, and contributes nothing to the running of the flat. My sister and her bf spent months saving up for a sofa and yet they have never used it as this girl is sleeping on it!
My sister has been going out with her bf for a long time, and I know she would love to get married, but one of the reasons her bf has given for putting it off is that it would upset this girl as she is recently divorced. My sis has complained about her friend to me and my mum but when my mum said she needed to address the situation with her my sis told her that she lacked compassion - apparently the guests mother is bipolar and lives in America and she cannot go back to her. My sis just says she knows that if she were in this girl's situation she would be glad of a friend like herself. This has caused a bit of a rift between my sis and my mum and I can see both pov's tbh, but AIBU to think they cannot put their own lives on hold just to spare the feelings of their houseguest?
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Moulesfrites · 30/08/2011 10:53
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