A good friend of DH is getting married abroad. We would love to go but there are just so many reasons why we cant
1 - We just dont have the money - it would mean a loan
2 - I cant have time off work to go
3 - If i request time off and it was granted I could only have 4 days off (including the weekend) which would mean 2 days there 2 days travelling
4 - We have 2 LO so it would probably be more stressful than a holiday with it being such a short one
The thing is - his friend has asked him to be best man!
DH explained the situation to his friend, but he just doesnt understand, his DF has text me saying how gutted he is. When I explained our situation to her she didnt seem to understand either. Not only that but his friend has started to be really 'off' with DH, making comments such as "he knows who his true friends are" etc.
My only suggestion is that DH goes alone, but he says he doesnt want to (hes scared of flying).
So AI(we) BU to not go?
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cheekster · 30/08/2011 00:05
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