DP is off work at the moment - between projects so 'working from home' (with full permission of his boss) for a couple of weeks. I am not. DC with PIL at the moment for a few days.
I bob off to work quite happily this morning, then midmorning get a text saying he thinks he's dying. Briefly panic, phone him and establish that he has got diarrhoea and has been sick. Am sympathetic on the phone. Text him at lunchtime asking if he could pick up some burger baps and run the hoover round as we were having some people over for food and films. He says he's not up to it. OK, I grab the stuff on my way home.
Get home and he is lying on the sofa looking VERY sorry for himself, but the Xbox is on and hasn't gone to screensaver so can't be feeling that bad. Turns out he hasn't had anymore D+V since 10am but thought he'd better rest up to be on the safe side. The house is a shit tip, yesterday's washing up not done, the laundry has been lingering getting that damp smell in the machine all day, the post hasn't even been picked up. You don't even want to see the state of the toilet he used this morning.
Now, if this was me I would just GET ON with things, if gingerly. Had to cancel having people over because he doesn't feel up to it. Not sure what he expected to have to do towards the evening as I would be preparing food, getting people drinks etc etc but hey.
Is this men and women handling illness differently? Or AIBU?
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...to expect a whole day NOT to be written off for a bit of D+V?
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fegwood · 25/08/2011 20:20
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