DH has 2 best friends who were getting married this yr. One got married a few months ago, we took DD (then 7 months old) to the eve reception (DH really wanted her there), she got ill, I got ill, she was overtired so she and I left early (also had a row with in laws there ).
His other mate gets married next week and has 4 evening events and 2 daytime ones. DH wanted to take DD so he could dance with her at the wedding (very sweet and something he has talked about since I was pregnant!) but since the last wedding we agreed not a good idea to keep her out late. Instead we agreed we would take her to the day events and I would go with him to two eve events (w/o DD) and I would stay at home with DD for the rest.
His mate has now said he is upset that DD is not going as he really wanted her there for two evening events. If I take DD she won't be able to sleep unless I keep walking around with her in the pram and will upset her routine / not be comfy for her (events are 7pm - 1am and she usually sleeps at 8pm) and I won't relax as will be running around outside with a pram.
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Angel786 · 25/08/2011 14:47
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