ok... Dh had a night shift on Sunday and during his catch up sleep he had 2 nightmares
- the house was swarmed inside and out with bugs the size of his hand
- dd(21 months) somehow managed to climb up and open the bathroom window and fell out (we have a tall window, about 2ft off the ground by the toilet, its a double glazed window so you push in a button to open while moving the handle)
Dh has now decreed that this window must be kept locked. I refuse to do this as there are 2 males in this house plus i have ibs so having a window to open is vital (tmi but smelly!). I told him he was over reacting and he has it in his head that dd can sneak out of the lounge, through 2 stairgates, climb up, open window (see above) all without me noticing! (we have open plan kitchen/lounge ane you can see both stair gates from sofa!)
He came in after i went to bed last night and left as i was getting dd up today, i went to the bathroom with dd and needed to open the window but it was locked and the key was gone!!
I sent him a text telling him i was pissed off and didnt appreciate being treated like a child incapable of ensuring dd was safe! I told him he was riddiculous and overbearing.. Was ibu??