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I have posted before about my sister who has depresssion following hysterectomy and has turned to alcohol to cope.
She is now in a complete and utter mess.
Last week I discovered that BIL and niece had gone off on holiday and was able to get access to the house and bring my sister down to my house.
She is unrecognisable, filthy skin, hair and clothes, face broken out in red spotty blotches (looks like a drunk street person)
Her bedroom is beyond disgusting.........it's filthy, full of empty bottles, old food, rubbish everywhere and stinks (not smells, stinks )
I had a long phone conversation yesterday with BIL to try and arrange a family meeting to see what idea's we could come up with to help and he's not interested.
More or less he's said myself, my son and my ex-husband (who helped me with her last week) can do what ever we want but he's not interested in being involved ......he's had enough and doesn't want to know??
I can't get her to move into mine so I'm considering insisting that I move into their house for maybe a month to see if I can get through to her and help her.
I know he won't go for it so wonder if it's unreasonable to just move in and refuse to leave due to him refusing to help her?
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AIBU?
AIBU to demand my BIL allows me to move into his house?
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creamola · 23/08/2011 10:58
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