My brother recently was married in Switzerland. I live in London and the rest of my family, one other brother and sister, travelled from New Zealand. It was a lovely occasion. However, at the reception (which was held at an expensive Hotel on Lake Zurich) I made the mistake of presuming I would be seated with my family. When we entered the reception room we found my husband and I were seated on another table separate from my family. My other sister and other brother were seated at the head table alongside my brother, the brides family, the best man and his girlfriend, and the bridesmaid with her partner. We also had my husbands son seated at another table separate from us again. I feel embarrassed because I was visibly upset and annoyed in front of other guests at the table we were seated at, I did regain my composure after my initial shock but not before one of the other guests asked if I was ok. I said it's ok and vowed to my husband I am going to enjoy it and probably thought I would have more fun with these people anyway. Prior to this we had no family issues, no feuding or anything, however I did pay for my sister to fly over and discovered before the wedding that she had been spending money that other family had given to her (for the trip) on redecorating her house. I understand that I was may have been the sacrificial lamb as it was probably just a case of being tight for tables space. However, I was really upset at this, and I think because my sister had taken so many liberties, but got to sit at the head table. I know seating is difficult at weddings, but it was my brothers wedding, our parents died when I was 13 and this is the only family I had. I had not seen them for two years. I also know there are many different seating permutations they could have tried to avoid this. I was gutted. Am I being unreasonable by being upset at this. I had also been tasked with taking the photo's on the day as well, as they didn't hire a photographer for the occasion. Ugh!
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Upset for being seated separately from Family at brothers wedding
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JaybeeM · 22/08/2011 17:53
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