We met online and chatted via email, he quickly asked for my facebook and skype and we started shatting on that. Within days he de registered on the dating site.
We were swapping texts all day and he seemed like a nice guy.
We set a date, last monday.
He was away last weekend and i was busy, but he seemed to just vanish and no firm plans had been made, but i was still getting random texts from him, to which i would reply and then he wouldnt reply. I think thats odd.
We spoke via skype on the monday, the day we were meant to be meeting and he said nothing of it at all. I said i wsa busy and left.
About an hour later a got atext saying he was sorry, he thought i didnt like him and had got depressed. He said he has bi polar and is a recovered from a eating disorder.
I tried to re assure him i did like him and that i was interested but didnt seem to get anywhere.
I just think its too much hard work before we have even met.
Then, i get texts at odd times, always before 6am and then all day, and then nothing in the evening till gone 11:30. Or he texts to say hes tired and going to bed and then i see on his facebook wall ( added at his request) that hes talking to people at 1am!!
Something doesnt add up for me, i feel really suspicious, but that is the general stance i take when it comes to men anyway.
SO - AIBU to have doubts, should i give him a chance?
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To be really suspicious of this man/future date
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wrongweek · 22/08/2011 07:57
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