Just had a row with dh when I told him I would be staying at home and catching up on ironing and having some time on my own tomorrow. We have 2 small kids and used to see pils every weekend for a 5 plus hour visit when first son born. It was too much and so reduced to every other weekend. In the last year or so I have said a number of times that dh should take them on their own. On each occasion I have done a ton of ironing but really enjoyed the peace! In truth I want to attend alternate visits. Dh feels it's embarrassing as obvious I don't want to be with his parents. They are decent people but truthfully I resent giving every other Sunday up. I know they love the kids and the kids love them so happy for dh to take them every other week. Why does offence have to be taken, it's not a personal slight. Why can't my dh and Pil's appreciate I am a full time mum and NEED a break (even if it's a bloody ironing one). My dh doesn't see my parents as often - his work and mine don't so I see mine in the week a lot of the time. Sorry it's long. Dh pointed out I could have ironed today as have has a slob out day. Am I being unreasonable?
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Imjustagirl · 20/08/2011 19:49
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