My DP works shifts and often finishes work after 11pm, I stay at home with our 3 DC, aged 6, 4 and 2.5yrs. The kids get up most days between 6.30 and 7am, the 6yo opens the stairgate and they all trundle downstairs and pop the tv on.
My DP insists that no matter how early they rise I should get up with them. I feel that no harm will come to them if I stay in bed and leave them to it - I get up around 8am on a "day off" where I have no school/appts to be at.
Is this unreasonable? Our kitchen downstairs has a lock on it that none of them can undo and therefore they only have access to the lounge and the downstairs loo. Obviously, I am aware of the children being up, can hear them downstairs and just "doze" until my alarm goes off at 8.
What does everyone else do? Am I being lazy/neglectful by not getting up with them immediately? I just don't see the problem with letting them go downstairs without me for an hour or so, after all its not like I am sleeping all day while the kids run riot downstairs!
Grateful for all opinions!
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groundhogmum · 20/08/2011 09:24
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