DP?s mum is coming for a visit. We live in a studio flat and she is bringing his 4 young siblings with her. This means DP will be on a sofa, one of his siblings will be on the other sofa, one will be on a single blow-up bed and 2 will share our bed with his mum. And I have to stay at my DSisters for the entire visit.
This visit is something I had been encouraging as he lives very far away from his family and hardly sees them. They?ve visited once before and despite them being cramped in our tiny flat and me being at my sisters, we had a total blast. We took them out every day, made a big fuss of the kids and really enjoyed ourselves. The plan was for us to work out a time DP and I can both take off work during the summer holidays and his mum would bring the kids down for a week then.
But she booked her train tickets for a period when I may not actually be able to stay at my sisters (DSis has had to do some serious plan-juggling to accommodate) and for 10 days rather than a week like last time. She never asked us when is convenient to come and didn?t ask how long we would be able to have them for, just went ahead and booked it then told us after? We?ve both managed to get the time off luckily but it also falls over other commitments that we?ll just have to take them along to.
Its not that I don?t want them to come, but feel like its been marred by the fact that she didn?t bother to consult us when she will pretty much be taking over our home (and essentially ousting me from it!).
Am I being unreasonable to actually be really fucking pissed off by this?
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CarouselLover · 18/08/2011 13:34
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