. . . and so not to bother talking to her anymore?!
So I was talking to a friend the other day about my cousin who has told me that she is in an abusive relationship. She asked me what it was that my cousin had said so I told her that she has said her DH is controlling, jealous, doesn't like her using email or going out without him and has punched her around the body.
My friend said "yeah but you've only got her word for it" and "yeah but you don't know what she might have done to make him like that"
This friend has made it obvious to me in the past that she can only see things from her own perspective and can never put herself into the shoes of other people. For eg, she thinks that all single mums should work full time and when I have explained that sometimes they can't earn enough to cover the childcare (and don't all get free childcare from family like her) she just couldn't understand that. I'm starting to think she might be a bit thick.
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to think this woman is unable to imagine any senario she hasn't herself directly experienced . . .
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WhoseGotMyEyebrows · 18/08/2011 12:04
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