DH has got an invitation to yet another "Stag weekend"; travelling to a city 200 miles away on the Friday, and therefore taking a day's annual leave, then 2 nights of staying in a nice hotel, drinking and going out to eat, oh and a bit of go-karting thrown in, whilst I stay at home and look after the kids, on a budget!
It's DH's best friend and he feels he can't say "no", and I guess I don't mind him going away that much, it's all the costs involved and the fact that he's going to be away for 3 days that annoys me. In the past few years he's been on several others; Ibiza for 4 days, somewhere else in Spain for 4 days, Newcastle, Dublin, several to London, none of which are less than 2 days' duration. Each costs a minimum of about £300, the ones abroad involving flights etc have obviously cost more.
I just feel that stag do's are getting out of hand; whatever happened to a good old fashioned stag night? Grooms seem to be getting more and more competitive about where they're going and looking for better and better and more expensive locations. And lots of men seem to have a problem saying "no". Funnily enough many brides just have a hen night or maybe a spa day if they're pushing the boat out; probably because lots of women are conscious of the fact that they have children to look after and money isn't unlimited.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
To get annoyed about "Stag Weekends"?
40 replies
Purplegirlie · 16/08/2011 09:32
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.