I am 41 weeks pregnant with a 20 month DD and been on maternity leave for 3 weeks so far. We are maintaining DD routine with nursery as luckily I still recieve full pay for 6 months so she is out during the day 4 days a week. Since finishing work I have done all the housework. The washing, ironing, cleaning, cooking, etc. DP hasnt had to lift a finger which on the whole I dont mind I'm not in work and he is. We're both knackered all the time and I'm in pain and struggling to move and breathe. (unfortunately not labour pains yet!).
Is it too much to ask though that he bring a wash in when he sees it is raining, to take dry washing upstairs and put it away? To rinse a glass or a cup when all it has had in it is some juice?
I know if I ask him he'll do it but a month ago I never had to ask him he could think for himself.
I'm venting on here before I say something I regret as I love him and I dont think he realises. But I also wondered has anyone found that once they're on maternity leave their DP seems to think the dont have to do anything around the house anymore?
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To think that DP could still help out around the house when I'm on maternity leave?
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Lougav · 15/08/2011 22:18
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