My DH has the results of his scans soon, after having had a lump removed. Am I being unreasonable to want to be there when the results are given to him? He doesn't want me to be there as he'll call me afterwards if he needs me. I want to be there rather than be at work. I feel like I'm on a retainer to be called on if needed rather than his DW sharing this.
However, he goes ballistic if I'm not around when he calls, or if I don't stop what I'm doing at work to call him straight back (privately) when he does ring me. My work involves lots of other people and I can't always just drop everything, which is why I'd rather just not be there (at work). I know that work isn't my priority with this going on, but while I'm there I have to do a good job... AIBU???
And btw, I've tried to talk about it - a few times, but get shouted down every time.
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To want to be there when he gets his results?
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liveyourlife · 12/08/2011 11:32
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