I have a very good friend who had her 3rd dc four months ago. Dc is exclusively bf. Friend is having a very hard time as she is up at least 5 times a night. She quite frankly looks ill and like she needs a night off.
I suggested to her she could begin to express as at least that way her dh could do some of the night time feeds. Also gps live very near by and I know they would love to watch the baby for a few hours while my friend caught up on sleep. I also offered her my own unused breast pump-I couldnt bf due to shite nipples(btw this is not a bf v ff thread-I support bf)
Friend says she doesnt want to express as cant be bothered faffing about with bottles(again I offered her bottles,steriliser etc). Am I BU to be perplexed by this decision?. To me her catching up on a bit of sleep is worth the small amount of "hassle" that expressing would entail.
I am worried that friend is slighty pnd as she often looks weepy/stressed. Yes before I get flamed I know this is entirely normal(3 dcs) but she did say her hv had also mentioned the possibility.
What else can I do to help? I would be able to look after baby for her if she expressed and have told her I would love to do so.
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pink4ever · 11/08/2011 18:47
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