I am a mother of two DS is 3 and DD is only 4 months old. My husband calls me the other day from work to say he wants to 'sort out' his sailing dates for September and initially said he will be away Mon, Wed, thurs, Fri and late back on sat night, Thats ok isn't it? I said not really as I will be on my own and he won't see the kids for practically a whole week. He seemed miffed and then later said that he will only now do Mon, Wed,Thurs and late back Friday as if he was doing me a favour.
Am I being unreasonable to be pissed off that he is not fussed about seeing the kids for that amount of time and thinking it's ok for him to go on holiday whilst I look after OUR children.
He has always done this trip but I stupidly thought that with now two kids he might give it up, especially as he knows that I am not exactly finding things easy with two children now.
I just feel that yet again my life has got turned on it's head and I have had to give up alot and he thinks he can carry on with no changes, He has even got into Triathlons since i fell pregnant and his training takes up alot of evenings and they are also taking up what I consider to be precious time with the kids at the weekend. He works in London so is supposed to be home 3 nights to bath the kids but at the mo that rarely happens.
Sorry for rant but just want to know if I am being unreasonable or not?
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Megastar · 11/08/2011 10:37
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