A small issue, but I want to know if I am being unreasonable.
For most of our relationship, I didn't drive. DH had a car and did all the driving. I struggled to pass my test and then finally passed in an automatic.
For a short while, we shared an automatic car. Then it because necessary to run two cars due to us working in totally different locations, so DH had buy another car. He bought a manual, which obviously I can't drive.
He seems to be finding excuses to take the automatic car instead of his car. The other week, he rang me up and asked me to come home from my mum's house because he wanted to take the automatic to a sports thing with some friends. I asked why he couldn't take his car and he said it was because the other car has a bigger boot and they had equipment to transport. Then he asked to take the automatic car to work because his was making a funny noise.
Just now he left to go to a meeting. He rang me and said he'd forgotten something and could I go out to the road as he drove past and give to him. He was in the automatic car. I said "Why have you taken my car?" and he was all "Oh, it's YOUR car, is it? I thought it was the family car as we can both drive it". I pointed out that it was ridiculous to take the only car I can drive when there is another one available to him. He said "OK, fair enough" and drove off
This is really pissing me off. I know this is because he has found he actually prefers driving an automatic, but he won't admit it because he was slightly scathing about me choosing to take my test in one instead of keeping trying with a manual.
AIBU to think he should rive hos own damn car?
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to think that you shouldn't take your partner's car, if they can't drive yours?
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kickingking · 10/08/2011 19:05
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