My mum had a hysterectomy yesterday at a london hospital in day surgery
She was very ill afterward in recovery vomiting and in excrutiating pain, my mum overheard a nurse saying that my mum was to be discharged and another nurse arguing that she was too ill to be discharged. The nurse then told my mum who was drugged up on morphine and had just had surgery .. To get herself dressed and to call her partner to pick her up and take her away. my mum couldnt reach her phone/belongings the nurse grudgingly passed them to her and left her to dress herself
She was given no care plan, and basically kicked out of the hospital
I arrived at my mums house this morning (I couldnt come last night as I couldnt leave dc's) she was white as a ghost, shaking in agony
she was unable to pass urine the hospital when we called told her to make a dr's appt !
I insisted that she be taken to A and E
they had to catherterise her in hospital, her bladder was so full the nurse was so shocked at A and E and now she has an infection and is upstairs shaking in pain.
I cant beleive that the nurses would discharge someone who is in so much pain, with so little care or empathy.
I feel really devastated at how my mum has been treated.
I was just wondering is it normal for people to be discharged in states like this??
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gateacre1 · 10/08/2011 18:24
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