My Grandmother in Germany died recently and my Mum is over there trying to sort everything out.
Although not married she'd been living with a man for about 18 years. They lived mostly in her flat but he still kept his furniture, appliances and some clothes in his own flat upstairs to hers. Due to their failing health her partner's son arranged for them to move into a new flat. The move happened while my GM was in hospital and she sadly died before ever living in the new place.
The partners son has sent my mum an email saying she owes him well over £3k! He's broken it down into moving costs (fair enough, her stuff was moved) but also for wardrobes he had made, sofa, chair, blinds etc. The costs are all halved between my GM and her partner.
Moving costs aside my Mum said she's not going to pay. The partner is still living in the flat and there's been no offer of giving my Mum the furniture they expect her to pay for.
There's a big, beautiful display cabinet of my GM's in the new place which they've not offered money for. His isn't there so I assume that's been sold.
Also, there are some items of furniture from my GM's old place that we have no idea where they went, or if they were sold. If they were, we haven't seen a penny.
There are some other small items of my GM's that seem to have gone missing too.
I fully agree that my Mum shouldn't have to pay for furniture for someone else to use and sell but am I missing something here?
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Bulmers · 09/08/2011 11:33
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