hi
just wanted to canvas opinion really. My Mil is in her 70s and has a few health issues is also only carer (through own choice) for FIL who has dementia. Anyway I have spent my holiday from work last week helping her get her house sorted. She has not been coping and it had got into a real state, v smelly and dirty and clutter piled uo everywhere. Anyway to cut a long story short now all clean and decluttered (my whole week off spent on it). she is grateful and full of praise. I have suggested that now it is in a reasonable state we get a cleaner to come in once week tokeep on top of theing - but she point blank refused.
It is not that she does not have strangers in her house - she will let repairmen ,gardeners, carpet fitters etc. in with no probs.
I am i being unreasonable for be be annoyed that she will just let the house go to rack and ruin again - until next year when I will have to spend another week cleaning.
You might think - well i dont have to - and true i dont - but how can i talke my kids round every week to a house that stinks and is dangerously unclean.
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to be annoyed that MIL wont get a cleaner
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audreyroberts · 07/08/2011 21:35
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