Ok, so I talked to my friend on the phone last week end and asked if she wanted to meet for dinner tonight. She said she would get back to me. She didn't so:
Email from me to her today: When do you want to meet for dinner? I am going away with work next Sunday for one week for work.
Email from her: I thought we were meeting today, but yes lets do another day.
Email from me: Today is fine too, I am not working today. What do you want to do for dinner, shall we go out for some lebanese food or do you prefer indian?
Email from her: lets organise something before you go away??
Email from me: No, let's stick to today, I am still free tonight!
Email from her! Sorry can't make today. It's my mother in laws bday.
WTF? I am so confused! This isn't the first time she has done this and it's getting really annoying. I feel like she is annoyed with me because I assumed we weren't meeting tonight after she didn't confirm but then she sends me a mail saying she couldn't make it anyway?
I am still annoyed with her about my wedding.Whilst she did the most beautiful reading at my wedding, she was always too busy to come wedding dress shopping and shoe shopping with me when I got married two months ago. She was also supposed to come to my house to help me get dressed but was 45 minutes late (as usual). Grr!
I am really wondering if it's worth staying friends with this crazy illogical person.
I know people like this and it's blimmin annoying. I don't know why they can't just say things as they are and be straightforward and honest in the first place. She was deliberately trying not to tell you she couldn't make it so that it looked like you were the one that was rearranging things.
She's replied to you saying lets do another day, then possibly phoned her MIL and said I'll come round tonight seeing as I am now free. I would have emailed saying what are the arrangements for tonight instead of when do you want to meet. The first email doesn't mention meeting tonight and she's now changed her plans, you're just as illogical as you're saying she is.