I was looking at baby photos of my DD (nearly 3) yesterday and it hit me that I'd really love to have another baby.
My DD is fine and healthy now, but was critically ill from septicemia caused by a GBS infection at two weeks old. I also had pre-eclampsia at 37 weeks and she was born by ELCS so I really don't know if I was a carrier or if she picked it up from someone else handling her - I guess that I'll never know.
When she recovered I read about GBS (see here if you want to read about it. I'd not heard much about it before DD was born) and realised how much of a lucky escape we had, that she had survived and had no lasting effects. Other parents have not been so lucky .
At the time, I thought we should just stick at one and not push our luck any further. The risks also increase if you've already had a child with GBS to 1 in 100 (it's about 1 in 1000 with no prior risk factor).
I'm 35 soon, and both DH and I would love another, but I'm scared.
Would I be unreasonable to try for another given that I carry an extra risk and I already have one DD? I'd hate to make another baby suffer/ die/ have long term problems.
Should I just stick with one to be on the safe side?
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Would I be unreasonable to have another baby (after 1st was critically ill with GBS (Group B Strep))?
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winnieinpooh · 05/08/2011 12:29
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