Am posting this in AIBU because I'm after brutally honest answers, so am bracing myself.
Dd is just 2 and has always been a rubbish sleeper. Doesn't nap at all. Never goes to sleep at night without a fight. Often wakes in the night screaming, sometimes up for 1-2 hours.
Typical bedtime: bath, milk, stories, everything calm. She has gone to sleep on her own a handful of times but generally needs someone with her, so whoever is doing bedtime goes to tuck ds in and then stays by her bed. She invariably plays up, tries to get out of bed, hits, kicks, pulls my glasses off etc, so we leave the room for a few mins. She screams blue murder. We go back in and try to comfort her. Repeat ad nauseum until she finally wears herself out and goes to sleep.
Last night ds (5) told me in tears that dd "always annoys" him at bedtime and wakes him up in the night. He has bags under his eyes and often seems tired. She also often wakes him up in the morning as she needs less sleep than him and makes a lot of noise from the second she wakes, so it's hard to get into her in time. The poor boy pretty much always goes to sleep to a background soundtrack of dd screaming, which just seems horrible.
Co-sleeping unfortunately just doesn't work for us - we do it occasionally on the really bad nights, but neither of us can sleep properly with dd.
So now I am a bit stuck. I feel so sorry for ds, and also dd really because she never has a calming bedtime, but I just don't know what to do next and the only thing I can think of is cc, which I don't really want to do (am also worried that I won't stick it out and will just make things worse). Obviously I am too sleep deprived to think straight. WWYD?
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To consider doing cc with dd for the sake of ds?
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LiegeAndLief · 04/08/2011 20:48
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