Aware I maybe being a miserable tight arse today but hey ho...
Was in well known high street clothes shop buying a rare item of clothing, and when I get to the till and just putting my card in when girl at the till asks if I want to make a quid donation to the Teenage Cancer Trust. I'm not sure why, but this really riled me that i'd been put on the spot, with the rest of the queue watching. I did donate, but growled at the girl that I don't like being asked those sort of things on the spot. She shrugged, and said she'd been told by head office to ask (i'm aware obvs not her fault). I said that it makes people feel guilty, and they might not be able to afford that last pound. She shrugged again, and said that was head office's idea, to guilt people into donating. The women at the til next to me with a couple of kids was asked and she said that no, she couldn't afford it, but the girl serving her asked again "are you sure?" This pissed me off even more.
For the record, I know that the TCT does AMAZING work, and it's not giving the pound that bothers me, but being put on the spot. I do donate to a couple of charities by Direct debit each month, and the odd bigger ad hoc donation to something when I can afford it. I'm aware that I could've said no, but I would've felt mean and guilty
I think that normally i'm quite a generous person, not sure what i'm trying to say, maybe i'm having a bad day and being a grumpy cow- if so slap me! I just hate this sort of pressure to donate. Could join my hatred of charity chuggers!
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PossetFeatures · 02/08/2011 21:08
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